It's nice to hear that some of you are willing to seek treatment to save your relationships.

My girlfriend, who I treat like my spouse, was diagnosed with BPD last year. It has been difficult but I can confidently say that I love her so much. She quit seeing her doctor recently and I'm worried where this might lead since she's been very suicidal recently. We don't really fight about the usual stuff that couples fight over. We just get into arguments when it's about her self-harm tendencies and her suicidal attempts. When I don't consent of these things, she threatens to leave me. I really don't know what to do and I guess that's why I decided to join this community.