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Old Feb 04, 2016, 03:07 AM
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Originally Posted by _Mouse View Post
Is normal to want to be known. Also by telling T all the details it puts them there with you.
In my type of therapy. 'Rambling' is perfect. It leads deeper into the unconscious. If a T isn't trained in the unconscious than they would want to 'sit' in the 'details'.
Your T is missing an opportunity.
My point is that I don't feel present when I tell her so much. It's too fast and I don't SEE my T which is very important to me. I need to feel connected to her. She wants me to slow down but I'm conflicted because of my strong need to tell her the details. I like when you said the details "puts then there with you.". I want my T to know. I think it has to do with feeling cared about. My Mom was the only one who wanted to hear all the details. I miss her.
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