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Originally Posted by rainbow8
My point is that I don't feel present when I tell her so much. It's too fast and I don't SEE my T which is very important to me. I need to feel connected to her. She wants me to slow down but I'm conflicted because of my strong need to tell her the details. I like when you said the details "puts then there with you.". I want my T to know. I think it has to do with feeling cared about. My Mom was the only one who wanted to hear all the details. I miss her.
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Maybe you don't feel present, because it's at this 'fast rambling' moment when it's coming from the unconscious. Which is coming from the past. You are bringing the past into the present. That's what I mean by unless a T is trained in this way, they dismiss it rather than engage with you just where your are, just as you are.