Besides that, we can't help who we fall in love with!
It just is what it is!
As far as your anxiety over who and what you are goes, I haven't quite got
that one all figured out myself, but I do my best everyday to simply accept
myself for who I am as a whole - including aspects of myself that I don't see
as favorable as others.
All of it makes me a complete package, and I'm too special to get crammed into
some narrowly defined stereotype that society tries to tell me is or isn't acceptable!
Sincerely,
Pfrog!