I think that you are correct.. no one does ever "forget"...
BUT we do have our own personal opinions - that includes.. having the "right" to feel as we want and to express that here at PC..
that includes.. forgiveness.. non-forgivenness, whether we feel that our "perp" should/shouldn't be punished, how they should be punished..
Absolutely,,, no one has a right to tell me "how to feel" towards my pedophile.. no one...
my heart... my faith... my beliefs.. my soul.. my spirit..
they belong to me...
And I will continue to express how I feel at PC... because it helps me...
May everyone.. here... be granted the gift of peace...
That is the best... that I can hope, pray, and wish for everyone.