Hi FW,
You are NOT DONE!!! Your son is always going to need you. Kids are never done...they just need you in a different way each time. I'm really sorry about your dog. That is just awful and would make me depressed too. 13 years is a nice long time though. I wish I could be there in person for you to hold your hand as you go through this.
Change is hard. I'm finding that out (once again) now in my life too. You've been a lifesaver for me! So, until you've got me all arranged, I guess you're not done!
Seriously though, I hope you got rehydrated all ok and are home feeling better.
PM me anytime. Remember, we're in this together!
Okie