Sorry OneIn... I can empathize... I am also an older kissless virgin... Gay and introverted. And how old and not feeling like trying is worth the heartache anymore. People keep pointing out others who found love late in life. None of them went their whole lives without even a "test run" even if that didn't work out... And none of them were so ill of physical, mental, and emotional problems that they didn't even want to try any more.

Wish I had something positive to add.