In my state, too far in arreas, months will: lien your bank account; suspend your license; withhold tax refunds; leave a note on your credit report. I'm sure it goes further, up to and including jail time. My ex kept me abreast on his unemployment fiasco. Long story short. Unlawfully terminated by an employer of fifteen years back in August. Unemployment took until Christmas for resolution. He was already garnished as back in'09/'10, i told him it would bring his taxable income down and this way less room for trying to bend out of support as he wasn't good with a checkbook. All those things that could happen did up to the credit report in that time period. If unemployment didn't come through, we were going to amend as he also found some employment similar time frame.

Counseling could be the therapists call. If shared legal(ding,ding..hint,hint) then therapists worry that therapy can be reversed without both parents on board. I learned this when I was refused therapy for my younger two because at the time there was a restraining order from my having been pulled out of my van in '13. He's on board with therapy for our oldest ,at this juncture. Family counseling it will be. Oldest needs coping skills,anxiety types of reactions overcome him at home and with his father, lifelong struggle. The other two will probably follow suit. Baby steps. He's involved with them, a reflection of having lost his own dad at three.

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