I tried to put her into therapy late last year but the program required the consent of both parties to the parenting orders. My orders state joint parental responsibility with regard to important matters like medical, schooling etc. Long story short my ex refused. Spoke to my lawyer and they said it would be a minor contravention but perfectly justifiable, as you're acting in the child's best interests.

I just need a referral to a therapist that is happy to go ahead without his permission. I'm sure I'll find one.