I used to think mine loved me, and now I don't know if he even wants to see me as a client.

Years into this and I don't like the therapy relationship itself. I think it is inherently flawed. Tell me again how this works, put a needy unlovable feeling person in a close intimate (for them) relationship, have them fall in love with a person who is forbidden from loving them back, then ensue one way dialogue and unraveling heart break for the client as their "treatment."

What is this, some kind of what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger BS? Maybe taking my already broken heart and just exploding apart whatever shreds of it were left will somehow help?