Wanderer14, thanks for posting this. It sounds like you both started out young and were happy. Then you wandered to the greener grass on the other side. When i was growing up you married for life. Your marriage was a commitment to give shelter, protection, upbringing to your prodigy and wife. That is something people no longer do these days. They did not marry for love back then, but they grew to love the person they married. A lot has changed in modern times. Do you still care for your wife and child? Then go back to them. If something does not feel right than don't do it. You have to make a choice otherwise you are tormenting yourself and those involved. First i would suggest to weigh it out by talking to a counselor and they can give you feed back. Not too many people are given a second chance at their marriage. You have that gift if you want it. Think about it. tc