Thanks, i haven been checking out this post for a very long time because i am fearful of the perception by others towards me when i admitted some things here. I know i can end up being too assertive and forceful and then get into a personal flame war if i feel strongly towards certain issues. This is something that i have to learn to detach entirely and remind myself to let go & accept. Also usually i am very afraid of disagreeing with other people and this is a safety behaviour which i'm struggling to get out of.