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Old Feb 05, 2016, 02:24 PM
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Unfortunately you're going to be met with people who stereotype "gay" and people will pass judgement on the relationship. Can you deal with that? Could your wife?

Did you ever tell her that you were identifying bisexual or does she know you have attractions to guys? (I remember reading posts where you'd said you were bisexual)

I think you need to talk to your therapist about the outcomes of coming out and have realistic expectations of it as they won't all be positive. It might even help to come out and then see if your wife would be willing to have a couple therapy session.

Also what does living more authentically look like? Is it just claiming the identity in social settings or is there more that you're seeking?
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