That book actually TRIGGERED a lot of anger in me. I had to put it down and stop reading it because I got so angry. It seems to be written with a lot of prejudices towards those afflicted with BPD and repeatedly talks about "manipualation" as a classic BPD characteristic with no further explanation. That seems harsh and judgmental IMO. There are farbetter books out there on BPD that were written more recently and don't make "borderlines" out to be monsters.