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Originally Posted by Shadix
Well now I am starting to realize that this one girl who is part of the group is starting to display some hostility towards me. It's weird, because she will be nice to me sometimes, but when they are chatting together at work and I go over and say something, she will often look at me with this annoyed look and say "what?" I have also noticed that she will often talk to everyone and ignore me. I have been nothing but nice to her, so my guess is that her reason for disliking me is thinking I am dumb or finding my personality annoying. It sucks, because I actually like her and have recently become kind of infatuated with her. And pretty much everyone at work likes her too.
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Gut feeling is that she is sensing your infatuation with her & she is not interested in you so wants to make sure she does nothing to encourage those feelings in you & is keeping that distance there for that reason. Women are good at sensing those things even when the person feeling the infatuation doesn't think it obvious.
Personally I think not getting socially involved that way at work is probably the best thing if you can't do it without the infatuation feelings & just keep socialization at an acquaintance level.