Alright, one example of many is that I usually meet someone who never is clear on their intentions sometimes I don't want to know or care to, but certain friends male and female do this a lot but I'll focus on a specific friend recently.

OK it's always frustrating whether I like or not like this person they never make sense. I don't always search something deeper but how they act confuses me. Like I'll be just like how I am with most of my friends talk when I can but it's almost impossible to plan anything we'll always talk about it, but never happens for whatever reason.
Anyways this specific person is really nice to me and tries to make me smile a lot then goes even further like wanting nudes of me and then sometimes flirting with me or like the other girl tell me they really like me a lot, but when I confront them always they never respond or when they do it's the same broken message of they love me a lot as a close friend.
Then later they get a bf and just drop me entirely don't acknowledge me anymore. Pretended like nothing before happened and that's fine to being committed I just don't trust someone who will try to half *** want something more to drop out on me later and pretend I am not a human with feelings giving me petty fake sympathetic responses. Playing the victim role to make me feel bad because I got confused from their actions because they were never honest with me.

This seems to happen a lot recently to the point I can't trust one thing that any girl says who does try to try their way into my life. It makes everything confusing.

All I want to know off the bat if this is something what they say it is or not, because I'm tired being told one thing and then the opposite happens. Like if you want to be my friend act like it not my off and on lover, and if you want a relationship be honest with me or at least make any effort to ease my anxiety of you, because when they make promises to me ik it's game over I ignore them after that because it means they want to be my friend but don't know how or it's a nice way of saying let's be friends And never talk again.

I don't care for people like that. They may believe I like them, but really I despise them.