Just when I didn't things could get worse, they did. My partner totaled his car last night. My T told me that proves he is not competent, which would mean I would take over I guess. It's not that simple. He has a nutty family, who all hate me, think I'm abusing him when it's the other way around. I don't want him to tell them about the car cuz then they will try to take away his license. They aren't around, not helping, which means I'd have to do even more than I'm doing now.

On the other hand, if he is unsafe then it's wrong to let him drive, but then I'm stuck having to drive him. And he said last night that if he lost his license, he did not want to go on.

I do have legal benefits and could hold his doctor accountable since she gave him really strong sleeping pills that made him so groggy he slept till the afternoon. It's probably why he got into the accident. She also hates me, is a big wig, but my T has shared patients and she is completely bad, like seriously bad. She's also not a shrink so shouldn't have given him psych meds. She also promised to give him a psych eval and MRI, which she didn't. If she had, he may have gotten proper treatment and this whole mess would have been avoided.

He could have died or killed someone. This is serious. There are even more things, but that is long already. Too many things. Hard to sort out.