I certainly can see feelings of sadness coming from an unbalanced friendship as you describe it--where you listen in great detail to their concerns and they seem to have no time whatsoever to listen to yours. I agree that it is unbalanced. I am hearing that it these friendships are hurtful as well, and I am very sorry that you are experiencing that pain.

Thank you for clarifying what you said to the Wii pad friend. I agree that it was not detailed as I had first thought. It took a lot of courage to tell him that.

You most certainly do not sound like a person who always goes to your friends about your issues. You definitely do sound like someone who always listens and tries to help.