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Originally Posted by eskielover
Gut feeling is that she is sensing your infatuation with her & she is not interested in you so wants to make sure she does nothing to encourage those feelings in you & is keeping that distance there for that reason. Women are good at sensing those things even when the person feeling the infatuation doesn't think it obvious.
Personally I think not getting socially involved that way at work is probably the best thing if you can't do it without the infatuation feelings & just keep socialization at an acquaintance level.
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Well, I should mention that my guy friend has sort of implied to me that he has a thing for the same girl also. And he interacts with her a lot more. So I would assume she would have picked up on that also, but she is totally cool with him it seems. So I'm gonna guess that's not the issue.
But I have seen these friends talk about how they can't stand other people over all sorts of things, including socially awkward behavior and ditziness. And this girl seems to look really annoyed when I ask a stupid question for example.
Sure I could just not get socially involved at work, but then I'll just go back to being lonely and left out. That doesn't help me at all. From what I can see, getting crushes on people is a part of having a social life. I don't see why I am not allowed to partake in this also.