This is an interesting post.... I know a person's choice of words means nothing, typically, but there was one time, after a rupture, when I was posting here a LOT. In one of my sessions, my T used the word "musing" twice. I figured I was just being paranoid. But I had never heard her use that word before....and kind of gave me a creepy feeling. Now I just don't care. I used to be VERY concerned about people recognizing me, but I'm not so much anymore. I know how easy it is to find PC via google searches for various things. But I remember that uneasy feeling I had when my T coincidentally used that word, when she never had before. I got a bit paranoid about it...lol