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Originally Posted by Nickname
I agree with you it is hurtful when someone gives you the impression that they love you, and then act as something else.
People usually gives subtle signs about their intentions, and rarely they speak about it explicitly.
If you have had several negative experiences, it doesn't mean automatically it will happen next time. It is like statistics, if you flip a fair coin 100 times and get a tail, their is a 50% chance that you will get a head in time 101.
Don't get harsh on yourself. If you want a break from people for a while, to re-evaluate your experiences and what you can learn from them for future encounters, it is OK. But eventually get out there and live your live. We humans are anti-fragile by nature.
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I live my life without somebody, I just get very lonely a lot, because not just girls who do this, but friends do too close friends. I understand them more than these girls do, but it's like they pretend to be there then aren't. It's just how it is for me. I don't have someone I see alot like most people do.
It's usually isn't me reading it wrong it's them being very poor on their cues at all. You can't just touch my shoulder kiss my cheeks hug me hard or kiss my lips and call us friends, like get your priorities straight before talking to me.
Or don't say you're my best friend make these goals and promises and don't do any of them or come around ever to see me or talk to me.
I live my life without somebody because I am not waiting on other people.