The cop at the scene did not seem to think so, but I only have a case number. The stupid people at the towing yard wouldn't let me in. Threatened to call the police on me for trespassing cuz they wanted a photo of his driver's license, which of course they didn't tell me. Great.

I do have power of attorney, and think I'm going to use it. There may be no other way but legal at this point, which I've tried to avoid.

A POLST is a legal, medical document often for end of life care or in emergencies. It says who gets to be in charge. His fancy doctor and daughter changed it without his permission. He didn't even know it was changed. They can't change this without his consent, usually written but at least verbal. What they did, according to my T, was illegal.

But because the doctor freaked out when I said so and dumped him, the document still reads that his daughter is the first person, then his other even worse daughter. If he had gotten injured last night, I would have not really been able to do anything. The one daughter drinks at night and works long hours. The other daughter is a flake, was living in her car, works far away, and almost depends upon my spouse for money that he doesn't really have.

He does have a nice grandson, but he lives even farther away, has money, but is never around.

I contacted my spouse's T, who has been understanding and is sorta friends with my own T. She is worried, may step in. Not sure.