If you are looking for a relationship where you'll never be uncomfortable, you'll never discover something about your partner you didn't know, that simply doesn't exist. That honestly doesn't exist in any relationship.
You can get to know someone pretty well, but sometimes people don't even know themselves all that well. Let's face it; we are all evolving in our self-awareness, our goals, our lives. I've been with my husband for 29 years now and am still learning him and he is still learning me because we aren't static beings; we are constantly changing and getting to know ourselves and each other. That's the stuff of relationships.
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