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Originally Posted by Nickname
Don't try hard to impress her or push her to like you. Workplace is not a good place to find someone you have a crush on. I suggest to be formal in your work place, and try to avoid her directly when with friends outside the work. Put in your mind that I am going out to have fun, and not to impress her, because otherwise, you will be anxious and she will sense that. Your anxiety and social awkwardness come from your thoughts that you like her and need to impress her.
You said that you think all others are annoyed with you? Why do think that?
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Well, I wouldn't say I try hard to impress her and I am not even sure if I would be interested in dating her anyways. However, I am nervous around cute girls in general, not just her. I would like to think girls would be a little more forgiving of that.
If one person is annoyed with me, then it is likely others are too. It seems to be pretty common for people to find me annoying. This is why I tend to back down from forming friendships. Well, here I am putting myself out there and getting the same result. So I don't know where to go from here. I hate being humiliated but I also hate being left out. And that is the problem.