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Originally Posted by Shadix
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(1)If one person is annoyed with me, it is likely others are too..... (2)Well, here I am putting myself out there and getting the same result.
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(1)This is an overgeneralization. It is not healthy to think this way. (2)Do you feel that you are being ignored here, too, because you are annoying? Have you had this feeling before in other contexts?
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Originally Posted by Shadix
No. The social gatherings I am talking about are just little chats between coworkers. I hang out with them, so it only makes sense that I would go chat with them. If I don't, that would probably come off as weird.
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Why do you feel the you have an obligation to engage in these gatherings? I would find it weird if two people are talking like 10 m away, and I go all this distance for example just to engage with them. I am not sure what is the setting in your work place, but I would participate in the chats that happen around me, while it happens I am there and know what it is about from the beginning. I have the feeling that you target the gatherings that happen with this girl, because you seem to mention that she is the only one that gives you "this" look.
Do you have social anxiety?