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Originally Posted by Nickname
Eventually, I think, it is your responsibility not to allow others to manipulate you. Do not allow yourself to get driven too easily with the flow. Check the facts and pay attention to signs. You cannot change others, or ask them to change.
For now I suggest to take an alone time voluntarily, and think about all these experiences that happened, and see how you can move on. If in the moment of clarity you decided that your friends are manipulative and competitive in a rude way, you need to re-evaluate your relationship with them.
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I 1,000,000 and beyond agree with you on this. I've been doing all I can, it's very hard to keep balance some people will do anything to get their way it's hard to get more than discouraged when all the snakes in the grass come at you at once. You're trying to figure whose who and it's always making no sense.
I always re-evaluate my relationships with my closest friends and people I let in, because of my trust issues I don't let it get in the way of enjoying life or their time. I won't bring drama or past bs up. I only get anxious when they hold back, or unclear of their intentions or are just not nice to me and when they are I usually make my decisions very quick. I don't regret my decisions I just go with it. I used to worry on what I be missing, but that's gotten me in a lot more trouble than ever.