We meet people all the time. We hit it off with some of them and become either friends or romantically involved. We are mutually attracted for whatever reasons.
We are all on our journey in life. Sometimes those relationships last a lifetime, sometimes they are short lived. I've had best friends that I lost touch with because one of us moved away. We just mutually let go, accepting that the close friendship was only during that time in our lives and met new people to befriend.
I've been a serial monogamist since I was a teenager. The relationships were good and fulfilling. They ended because of the usual reasons; didn't truly love them, didn't want to commit to them. The break ups were sad. But I treated them with care, and the ones who treated me badly, I got over and moved on.
I did not think of myself as a bad person because someone rejected me. They just didn't really love me or want me for whatever their reason was.
Every relationship will end. 'Till death do us part...or sooner. That's life.
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"And don't say it hasn't been a little slice of heaven, 'cause it hasn't!"
. About Me--T
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