Does anyone else have nosey parents? That go through your phone? Audit your internet and phone history though the service provider? Open your safes? Go through your room when you're not home? Always insisting you do things, without asking what you think about it first? (example: "if you want to, you could ____". If i were to reply saying, no, i dont want to, the conversation would become silent and they would hide their irritation. Its like a passive aggressive demand.)
It drives me insane. Really makes me tick.
The majority of what i tell them is "OK", because the majority of what we talk about is them suggesting i do things. OK means "i get what you're saying but don't give a ****".
Example: "If you wanted to, you could go fix your car", "OK", "You really should do it before it's too late", "OK" ... repeat. And when i don't do it, even though it was merely a suggestion, they keep badgering me about it until i snap and say "i don't give a **** leave me alone".
|