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Originally Posted by eskielover
Usually when someone has a crush on someone they act different around them even if it's subconscious. Best in the work place to control those emotions I keep them out of the work place especially if you desire to fit in. Got news....women can sense that sort of stuff even if you think they can't.....& they do put up blocks....they can be nice when they feel it's safe but when they sense that feeling they don't want to encourage the walls go up....I'm sure women aren't that different today than they were in mine when reacting to those senses.
If you really want to fit in....just be you & leave crush stuff out of the work place.
It does take time to observe the dynamics we work around to learn how to fit in....observing & analyzing is a good way to learn
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Well, other than hiding my feelings and trying to act natural, I don't know what else I can do. I can't help the way I feel about someone on the inside. It will probably go away eventually.
However, can a girl really differentiate between a guy who has a crush on her and a guy who is just shy around girls in general? I feel like I act just as awkwardly around other cute girls as I do around her. Will all those girls assume I have a crush on them and start avoiding me?
I am still not sold on the idea that my feelings for her are the issue. We have known each other for almost a year now. I had a bit of a crush on her when we first met, and she was extremely friendly with me, to the point where I think it's likely she had a thing for me. She would scoot her chair really close to me and ask what I'm up to while giving me a wide eyed interested look and a smile. Then over time she started to become less friendly and I sort of lost interest in her. Then we started hanging out recently, and I guess something happened during one of the hangouts that triggered my feelings.