Sort of, I think. She will let me see different sides to something, but eventually it's my decision. Last session we talked about something and she said she would advice this instead of that, because of..., but it's my decision. I've to decide what I do.
My T hasn't really stopped me from talking about a certain topic. She has said ''Chummy, we aren't going to discuss this, we have done that several times and keep talking about it won't help you. You need to experience that it can me different. You have to look at what it could be if you try. That is your truth, but it isn't the truth. You have to get experiences for that.'' She was kind of right. To keep talking negative won't really help. But it was also a bit irritating. I just wanted to talk about everything that's wrong and that things can't change.