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Originally Posted by unaluna
Geez. I couldnt even convince my t that our schedule was killing me (too many days). Actually i was just being a big chicken about it. I would make a statement, he would say, "well, .." and practically before he would say anything else, i would take it back. My mother trained me very very well. Not to mention the nuns. Then a guy i worked with once said, "when unaluna's eyebrow goes up, i know im in trouble." As the twig is bent, so grows the tree, with the apple falling not far from it!!
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Life is about win-win situations. Don't compromise. Being polite and humble don't mean to compromise, and take it the easy way for fear of conflict.
I didn't understand what you meant by "too many days". Is it too many days that you meet, or too many days between the sessions? In either case, present your therapist your feeling in the form of a question or a polite statement, like: "I feel we have too many meetings, or I feel I lose track of my treatment because the time between sessions is too long". Something like that.
Do you avoid arguing with people even in the virtual world?