Thanks for your input, guys. I really did feel like taking away Racoon and Sergeant Bear was the wrong decision, but your assurances have really put my mind at ease. I definitely think I will be finding a new therapist for him, the one LR sees now is very kind, but I don't think she's more up-to-date on some methods and some of the stuff she suggests is very....out-there? I don't know, but DH has been looking for someone that will suit our family more and LR is actually very excited to get away from ' bossy lady' as "Sergeant Bear" calls her.

Thank you again