I have wondered about T. She seemed to care about me but never actually came out and said it. I felt like she cared but also question my perception of others I am close to. The last few months I have had multiple medical issues as well as a few family issues one being about my child. T has gone way above and beyond what I pay her for. We have gone through periods where we are emailing daily. Some of them are initiated by her. Right now I do not knew where I would be without her support. She recently told me she cared to much to allow me to do something that she knew would be a HUGE mistake. At first I was angry that she questioned my choices but then I realized she had a valid point and her assertiveness came from a place of caring.