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Old Feb 08, 2016, 01:17 AM
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You're most welcome and my last bit of advice: Be completely honest. One of the biggest problems we had was my hubby presents MUCH better than he is so the judges and people assessing him got to see public hubby. He hates for strangers to think badly of him or that he's incompetent so he sucks it up and seems very normal(what's that right?) and people think he's fine. They don't get to see the aftermath at home when he's a shaking broken down mess trying to recover from the social interaction. I really think if he'd let his pride take a hit and showed them the mess(and I don't mean that as harsh as that sounds just can't think of a better word) he really is he'd have gotten approved sooner.

I actually taped a day with him and got the psychologist that did his last review to watch it. Showed how he's fine if he's out but then he comes home and paces or cries or just sits and rocks back and forth and snaps at everyone from the stress of dealing with being out of the house.

I wish you the best of luck with your case
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