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Originally Posted by Shadix
I feel like what I really need in my life is to form my identity. And you need a social circle to do that.
What I'm really asking is how you are supposed to deal with it when a person in your social circle starts being hostile towards you in order to not look like a loser. I feel like this sort of thing tends to only happen to people who are socially inept so there really isn't an example of how a normal, well-liked person would react. Perhaps the fact that she is treating me this way is simply confirmation that I am a loser and that I can't expect to be socially accepted and liked by these people.
I find it really sad that this sort of thing is still happening to me as a 20something adult. For a while I thought that by now people would have grown up and I would no longer have to worry about being singled out and ostracized by social groups.
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I think you may want to seek therapy for your low self esteem issues. Perhaps it's not you at all. Maybe this girl has her own personal issues that is making her act this way. The sooner you learn to accept yourself, the sooner you'll see that how she is treating you is her own fault and not yours. Don't be so hard on yourself. At the end of the day we can't get everyone to like us. That's just life. Your going to run into a lot of ****** people bit it's not your own fault.
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