Hi All,

My t knows I have romantic thoughts about her, but I've also made sure she's aware I know they are unrealistic.

Anyway I have major anxiety over what she thinks of me. I read into everything and am super insecure. Sometimes I feel like I need more warmth/connection as I never had that in the past.

I'm really worried that because she knows I have romantic thoughts, she will think I'm trying to initiate something. When I just really want to feel secure, accepted and loved.

How do I approach this?
Is it a reasonable request?
Should I ask for more warmth?
Or should I discuss my anxiety over asking and what she is thinking?

Ahhhhhhhh

Ps were doing schema therapy

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