That's one thing I LOVE about living in a small town....everyone knows everyone elses business most of the time.

Of course, you said that he spends his time at your place.....didn't you ever wonder why he didn't invite you to his? I have found that any time I have those little nagging questions that I just brush/excuse away.....they end up being HUGE RED FLAGS in reality.

Feel glad that God showed you the truth now & that you didn't waste more time with this jerk.