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Originally Posted by ilikecats
I don't think a person necessarily needs to be concerned just because their T is. My T has been concerned about me before at times when I wasn't. I think part of this can be because a therapist doesn't know what you're thinking, and doesn't know for sure that a person is safe. But the person does know how they feel and what they would do, so they would know whether or not they will be safe, even though the T can't know this for sure.
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I tend to agree with this. What bothers and concerns one person does not necessarily apply to another. I would discuss it with my T if this happened. I have to say I don't always think my T sees a cigar as just a cigar.
. We don't always agree. But that's fun.