That is such a thought provoking question.. so hard to decide.. isn't it...

I never had a diamond... so it was just the band... and yepper I wore it for about 5 years after the divorce was final.. and I was the one that wanted the divorce..
my divorce took I think about 2 1/2 years.. timeframe..it was many years ago...

I think it is such a personal decsion... everyone.. and every situation is so different..

isn't it....