Puh-leeze. I held my co-dependent “tongue” as much as I could when others insulted you, since it was your business to defend yourself, which I knew you to be capable of doing. And I can understand if you want to short-circuit any other people who want to toss insults. But, for me, I like you, "not caring" and all, and so I don’t like anybody – even you -- saying insulting words about you. Yes, we move on!