Actually she's right, we are all gay to an extent or straight to an extent. It just depends with side of the continum you are on. There are only 3% of people in the WORLD that are 100% gay or straight most of us are in the range of 60%-80%. That means you can find someone of the same sex attractive but not want to go to bed with them, geez! We all know our limits here. Dude, I knew something was up with me when my whole mentalness started. I would get thoughts for awhile, I would get angry, disgusted, scared, anxious, then suddenly, they would disappear and I'd feel like me again. I'd feel great, then BAM, I see something on TV or the media about homosexuals then I'd been in the midst of it again "Am I gay? Can I turn gay? How do I know I'm not gay? %#@&#! I'm gay! No, I'm not thats disgusting! (to me at least)." The truth is, I've never been a homophobe. I've always thought "hey whatever floats your boat buddy." I've even been hit on by gay people but I would just say to them, no thanks, not interested. I've even had many heterosexual relationships in the past, even been in love once or twice. So I knew the thoughts didn't make any sense. But the only way you are going to beat this is if you study the disorder that's messing with your head and see a therapist. Dude, you can't turn gay anymore than you can turn into a chicken. It's okay to have thoughts that seem bizarre to you, EVERYBODY does. I see people telling you to give a homosexual experience a try, dude if you wanted to do that, you would have do so already because that is what you would have wanted. Good luck man, I hope the resources I gave you shed some light on the subject.