I just have a gold band, not an engagement ring, and you all will probably think this is strange, but I haven't worn my wedding band for about 10 years. I am still married, but not yet separated, and we are going through the divorce process. I gained weight when I had my second child and never got back in the habit of wearing the ring. I am quite a bit heavier than I was before, and I don't think the ring fits anymore. I was never motivated to get it enlarged, because I kept thinking I would lose the weight (and I still want to!).

I don't think my husband wears his wedding band either, but I'm not sure when he took it off. Given his infidelity, my guess is he probably wouldn't want women to know he was married.