I think that subconsciously we will always test others boundaries and especially our ts. I think that's a healthy part of growing into our authentic self.
If you were to hug your t, what would it mean for you to receive a hug from him?
What is it that you want from a t hug?
Maybe it means nothing more than you appreciate the work you are doing together and that you are being heard by your t.
What kind of t is your t, perhaps you could talk about him and your relationship in session in the here and now! My t was gestalt and it was all about our relationship with each other and what was happening in the room.
I think this could be an interesting conversation for you to have with your t and it could open up the work even more.


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