Do you think she is just taking your history. You say she takes a lot of notes. She also asked about your childhood. This might be just be her way of doing an interview. I know my first couple meetings were 90 minutes so my T could take a proper history. Maybe you could explain that her taking notes was offensive to you.

In terms of the scheduling issue, maybe she wanted to make sure you felt included in the meeting rescheduling, instead of just blowing you off and letting someone else handle it.

I would give her a little more time - a couple more sessions - and then see if you are a good fit.