Thanks lolagrace.. I do make regular generic thanks, but lately he has soon stepped up and file done things that have made me have the first place in 40 years that I have really believed I might be safe. I don't know if he realizes the impact of these little things he has done and said or if he is well aware of it. It has just ment so much to me, i want him to know. . But don't want to screw things up either.