Hey, if it's not going to work, it's not going to work. Which must be terribly disappointing, I understand. That said, I think it's worth giving another shot. As others have pointed out, it's still very early, your T may be trying to get a history and thus over-structuring this first session, and I do think you ought to forgive her for the time thing.

I mean, in any other context 3-4 minutes really is NOTHING, so it's natural to be miffed. Especially because those therapy minutes seem awfully precious. But 3-4 minutes here and there adds up quickly. I'd hate to be the last client of the day with a T who regularly went over by a few minutes in session (I know because I have been that last client waiting 30 minutes...)

Anyway, I hope it works out in the end.