Thank you!
My pdoc said that I have a lot of self esteem issues because of all the stuff I messed up because of my anxiety (being too scared to go to class, quitting work, being late to things). And it seems like this personality disorder has a lot to do with really bad self esteem?? So I guess it makes sense that I'd have a lot of those symptoms. BUT since I started doing better in school and relationships, those symptoms HAVE lessened a little. So my doc's probably right about my diagnosis, yay!
Thanks for helping me clear this up.