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Originally Posted by Petra5ed
Years into this and I don't like the therapy relationship itself. I think it is inherently flawed. Tell me again how this works, put a needy unlovable feeling person in a close intimate (for them) relationship, have them fall in love with a person who is forbidden from loving them back, then ensue one way dialogue and unraveling heart break for the client as their "treatment."
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That's what happened to me. It was neither healthy nor therapeutic. Was destructive.
In the the midst of it, I thought T cared. And she probably did in some uncertain way. But in the context of therapy what does that even mean? It is a role playing relationship, a simulation of an actual relationship. Authenticity can never be fully tested.
All these questions about did T care, did T love me… it all seems so perverse now.