There doesn't have to be a right or wrong but the options are also not critique the T or follow silently. No one knows what you want or need unless you communicate. Why not just ask her the plans, tell her you struggle a bit with connection, ask her what her time boundaries are. See if you and she can work together rather than assume she has made all her own plans and expects no criticism.

I just started with a new T. She started sayin something I didn't like, I asked her not to and now she doesn't say that. Communication is key.