My t has said to me that it IS personal, because it is about how I relate to other people. He does not like it, and does not respond well, if i go in and give him an ultimatum. He wants me to think about how i would handle the situation with any other regular person. Because yes i can be VERY bossy. Other people do not like that. You can say they are not being professional then, but that is not the point.

You read about movie stars who are difficult to work with, and other stars who are nice. Its like that. Who is being professional, and who is treating others the way they would want to be treated?

Like the scheduling. There is a LOT to talk about, about the scheduling. It upset you. That doesnt mean the t did anything wrong. Doing therapy means taking more time - maybe now, maybe later, but within your 45 minutes - to figure out why you found it upsetting. What you learn from it will apply to your whole life. Do you understand that?